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Can I live in another state and be a member?

Yes. You do not have to live in Philadelphia to be part of the Just Right family.

However, most meetings, gatherings, and events will typically be held in or around Philadelphia, PA.
If you ever feel called to take on more active roles of service in the future (like helping locally or possibly supporting a regional circle as we grow), it’s important to consider how distance and travel might affect your ability to show up.

 

Is there a fee?

Yes. All members are required to pay monthly membership dues to help support the family’s activities and operational costs.

• Current dues are $20.00 per month per member

• Dues are collected by automatic recurring debit using the payment method you provide

If you are experiencing temporary financial hardship, you may request a private conversation with the Mother (and/or a designated helper) to explore possible options for short-term support or dues flexibility. While assistance is not guaranteed, your situation will be heard with care and discretion.

 

Where does the money go?

All money raised from membership dues, fundraisers, and donations is used to support the family and the Club. Some examples include:

• Just Right daily website management and upkeep

• Promotional products and family-branded items

• Charitable donations and outreach when possible

• Costs toward obtaining and maintaining a future physical location for Just Right Social Club

• Support for Just Right programs, events, and member-centered initiatives

As we grow, additional uses may be added in alignment with our mission and values.

 

What are the mandatory rules to follow?

To keep this a safe, grown, and Just Right space, all members agree to honor our Family Rules and Inception Principles. In everyday language, that looks like:

Active Participation
Members are encouraged to participate in online discussions and in-person events when able. Engaging in community activities helps keep the family alive and connected. When life allows, attending at least one event per quarter is encouraged.

Inclusivity and Respect
All members must demonstrate respect, compassion, kindness, and understanding toward one another. We promote a culture of inclusivity, not disrespect.
Discrimination, harassment, bullying, or hate speech are not tolerated.

Open, Grown Dialogue
We welcome diverse perspectives and real conversations. Open dialogue is encouraged, but we ask that members approach discussions constructively and mindfully, even when they disagree.

Privacy and Confidentiality
Confidentiality is crucial. Personal information shared in private meetings, group chats, or online spaces must remain confidential.
Just Right’s private spaces (website groups, texts, etc.) are meant to be safe spaces. Do not share private conversations, screenshots, or details about members outside the family without their explicit consent.

Accountability and Integrity
All members are expected to honor these guidelines and help protect the energy of the family.
Serious or repeated violations may result in a conversation, a pause in participation, or suspension/termination of membership when needed to protect the family and the Club.

 

Additional Guidelines

• Treat everyone’s voice, ideas, and opinions with respect.

• No derogatory behavior toward other members or in the name of Just Right.

• Only cisgender lesbians 35 years of age or older may be members and participate in member spaces. This family is designated for mature cis female adults who identify as lesbians.

• Meetings, family circles, and private gatherings hosted by Just Right are exclusive to members only, unless otherwise stated.

• All members must follow the rules of any platform used (e.g., Facebook, Instagram, X, Wix, Zoom).

• Enrollment for new members currently occurs between the 1st and 5th of each quarter (January, April, July, and October), unless updated by the Club.

• Members agree not to engage in fraudulent activities or maintain more than one membership account.

 

Conclusion

By honoring these guidelines, we help ensure that Just Right Social Club remains a welcoming, supportive, and engaging family for all its members.

Thank you for your commitment to keeping this a space of safety, respect, and real connection. If you have questions or concerns about these policies, please reach out to the Mother of Just Right or a designated support member.

Together, we’re building a lesbian-led, 35+ family rooted in privacy, protection, and being Just Right, exactly as we are. 🌈💛